A mother knows it best!

So finally almost after one and a half years , I am back on my blog jotting down my thoughts about the thing that has kept me away from my dear blog ;) The best feeling on this earth of being a mommy dear and the worst when someone tells you how you can be a better mommy ;)

Let me introduce the new me :) I am a mother of a two year old darling daughter... yes a mommy now ;). so my life no more revolves around the political stories of a newsroom...ok so here I am sharing the details about the field I belong to..or I should say the career where I gave almost five years of my life before being a Mommy :P 

This time its all about the life that has kept me busy apart from being the coochiee coo couples for the people who know me and my hubby ;). Its the motherhood that I am enjoying the best at the moment :)

I have kept the tiny being in my womb for 9 months, and have been nurturing her in the best possible way. We start worrying about these tiny beings from the time we get a positive   pregnancy test ,and then follows hearing their heartbeats on the sonogram and counting kicks in our last trimester till the time we deliver & so on.

I think every mom would agree to me when I say that a mom knows it better whats best for her baby. Since the time I delivered, I have witnessed variety of unsolicited advises as how I should take care of my progeny and be a good mother. 

And to my surprise most of the time the people advising are the "non mothers" who are usually busy gossiping about the lives of others or about their mommy friends as how they are not paying full attention towards their offspring and our busy with their own social life...

Common ..don't you think that I am more mature and responsible than you folks are. I think somewhat this is my fault here as sometimes I act silly just for fun ,and there are people who perceive that you don't use your brain at all and start giving you their advises.

At any hour of the day one should understand that knowledge comes with experience not by peeping into other's life and wasting your time gossiping about how others are living their life.

I love my baby more than anyone else in this world. But at the same time its true that I crave for the me-time to mooch indeterminably around the shops at my nearby mall & I do it without any guilt making sure that my baby is in safe hands either with her dad or when she is at her school. But that doesn't gives you the right to judge me or my motherhood.

Life changes after marriage and in this partial world , the change is 80% for women and 20% for men. Yes this is what I feel. May be because with the power of producing humans, the abundance of emotion also lies within us which becomes our greatest weakness. It's a common scenario to see a career oriented girl, years later changing into a caring wife and a loving mom ..leaving behind her flying high dreams. 

And just because you are not working and enjoying your sabbatical, there are  numerous people around you who perceive that you are a not ingrained enough to realise whats good and bad for your offspring or your own life.

I feel such people need a great introspection before despondently trying to question the motherhood. Sometimes the unsolicited advises also comes from the old aunties of our society ...however that doesn't pester me much as somehow they are more witted than we are. But when it comes to a baby , I feel no one knows it better than a mother as to what's good for her progeny.

At last would just like to share a line that I read somewhere which says that there is no way to be a perfect mother but a million ways to be a good one. Just believe in yourself as you are the best :)